Not a solo event.
It’s more like soccer than tennis. More like baseball than golf. More like water polo than surfing.
The bigger the question you’re asking, the stronger the team you need. The higher the stakes are in the outcome, the healthier the communal process ought to be.
Lone decisions are in danger of being bad decisions.
Are you facing a big question? Get a coach who will challenge you. Get a team who will support you. Take the time and care together to determine the wisest next play. Then head out onto the field with all your heart.