Breaking rules does not lead to real happiness. It may be thrilling in the moment. You may get a strong hit of dopamine and adrenaline. But eventually, one way or another, to one degree or another, all those “devices and desires of your own heart” will leave it broken.
Yet keeping the rules is also no guarantee of happiness. I’ve met many a grumpy rule-keeeper. It seems quite righteous and holy, but there is nothing very satisfying to a human being about a list of do’s and don’ts. Your ego may be bolstered for a moment, but eventurally your heart will feel empty and alone.
The missing element in both approaches to life and happiness is this: Awe. What the Bible often refers to as “the fear of the Lord.”
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