You don’t have to voice your opinion.
About who your sibling marries. About who gets to be the leader. About where we go from here. About what’s on the menu. About how someone runs a program. About the quality of the performance. About the font in the document. About the way the teacher teaches. About the songs sung in church. About the color of the carpet.
It is possible to form no opinion on this matter and not be troubled in one’s mind; for things themselves are not of such a nature that they can create judgements within us.
—Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
Often, our opinions cause us more trouble than they’re worth. Not because they’re wrong. Not because they’re right and the wrong people are angry. But because opinions take on a power all their own.
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