This past Sunday, one of the most encouraging long-time members of our church asked me, “So, Pastor of Revitalization, how’s the revitalization going?”
“In fits and starts,” I replied.
That was, of course, not the answer I wanted to give. Not the story my ego wanted to tell. But it was true. Left to my own egoic devices, my preference is zero to 60 in 6 seconds. A total 180. Burn it all down and start from scratch.
Over the years, mostly through failures and missteps, I’ve learned that such an approach doesn’t tend to work out so well. For several reasons: A) It’s not kind to others involved. Most people are not early adopters. Most need adequate to time to get onboard. B) It’s not speed that guarantees healthy change. After all, cancer cells can tend to grow pretty quickly. Impatience is not an asset. And, C) It’s not realistic in most cases. Real change must occur in reality—where humans actually live.
My role is not is not to simply be a leader who causes change, but to be a pastor who shepherds change to be as kind, patient, and realistic as possible.
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