No, I’m not talking about apologetics, that formal defense or justification of a theory or religious doctrine. In general, my take is that Christian apologetics is largely a waste of time for two reasons.
One, it’s really just arguing. Trying to prove that I’m right and you’re wrong. Because the quickest path to the winners podium is to paint you as a loser. This does no favors to the good news of Jesus. I’ve never met anyone who was argued into faith. But maybe I’m hanging out with the wrong people.
Two, by using the word apologetic so often in this sense (defensively arguing), we lose the power of the other meaning: regretfully acknowledging an offense or failure. I’ve heard the word apologetic used far more in the church to describe defensive argument than I have to describe regretful sorrow. Heck, you can even get your PhD in defensive argument in order to defend the Christian faith, but I’m unaware of any such degree in saying “I’m sorry.”
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