As the eyes of slaves look to the hand of their master,

as the eyes of a female slave look to the hand of her mistress,

so our eyes look to the Lord our God,

till he shows us his mercy.

Psalm 123:2

Why do the eyes of servants look to the hands of their masters? Why do the eyes of a maid look to the hand of her mistress? 

For signals.

Because no one can win all the time.

So leaders paint a picture of what failure looks like. They set the tone for what failure sounds like. They give expression to what failure feels like. 

They give others permission to fail. They make failure the common rather than rare. They learn from failure as the teacher of wisdom and humility. They welcome failure as a form of success.

If the leader fails well, then anyone can fail. If the leader refuses failure as a valid option, then no one can fail. 

And the entire project is dead in the water because no one really tries anything at all.

But I will also lead with my mind. 

The Apostle Paul said this in relation to worship and prayer. (See 1 Corinthians 14:15) If that’s a pretty good m.o. for worship and prayer, why not for leadership as well? 

Sometimes I need to go with what my heart is telling me — regardless of whether or not it makes rational sense. 

Sometimes I need to go with what I know needs to be done — regardless of how I might be feeling at the moment. 

If they both match up? Bonus points!

I am a feeling-thinking being. Wisdom is knowing when to give either my heart or head the reins. 

So hold it loosely. 

Even in the best-case scenarios, even when someone is doing a fantastic job, there is often a term. You know going in that there’s an end date. Most of the time that’s a pretty helpful detail to know.

Most of the time we don’t know.

Because they invite further ideas. 

Because they need to be let loose to rub shoulders with other ideas in order to figure out what they really are.

Because they need to stretch their legs and run a round a bit after being stuck in your head for a time.

They’re smart like that. Especially these days when they’re bombarded from every which way with opportunities to be entertained. We live in a media-soaked culture, and people may fall for it more often than they ought, but deep down they’re no fools.

Or by playing it safe. 

Or by waiting for someone else to do something.

Or by hoping something will happen.

Or even by talking about something happening.

Maybe that’s 100%. But most of the time it probably isn’t. 

Maybe you’ve only got 90% to give to the thing in front of you. Or 80%. Or 70%. Or 60%. Or 50%. Or less, even.

Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain.

Psalm 127:1

Unless the Lord starts the church, the church planters labor in vain. 

Unless the Lord pastors the church, the pastors shepherd in vain. 

Unless the Lord preaches, the preachers preach in vain. 

Unless the Lord leads the small group, the leaders lead in vain

Unless the Lord makes his presence known in worship, the worship leaders sing in vain. 

And other times it’s important that the right person does a thing. 

A good leader knows the difference. A good leader can tell what’s called for in the moment. A good leader can discern the leading of the Spirit one way or the other.